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Growing Pains


Frustration, restlessness, and that nagging feeling that won't go away... These feelings are often swept under the rug and avoided at all costs. Surely if we fail to mention them then all of our troubles will simply go away... right?? I think these emotions can be a sign of something bigger and better on the horizon. Let me explain.

Sometimes Tyler and I just feel like we are in a funk. We can't exactly place our finger on it, but things feel... different. Suddenly the same things we were doing no longer work for us. Our routines have grown stagnant, and we find that our growth has become stunted. If we are not careful, our thoughts and words become more negative. We feel restless and unsatisfied.

We know who we can always turn to in these times. Nope, Netflix binges and chocolate fudge brownie ice cream won't do it. We will only find absolute comfort when we crawl into the lap of our Papa and ask Him what He is trying to tell us in this time.

In my experience, He is usually telling me it is time for a change. He has an upgrade He is eager to give me, but my current habits, thoughts, and attitudes need to be upgraded as well. My Daddy is patient as He leads me through this loving process. He wants to help me refine my character and become more like Him through each step of my life. He wants to help me become ready for what He is about to give me. He wants to build in me a foundation that is sturdy enough for the good things ahead.

The growth process can be hard, even painful. Each circumstance we encounter helps mold us into a new person. As I look back at some of my most trying experiences, I also see many of my most rewarding lessons. If I want to be used by my Daddy to fulfill His purpose for me, I must be a willing participant in His loving process. As I encounter a new situation that stretches me, I can seek His guidance and rest in Him. He will not leave me. Instead, He is walking by my side and teaching me how to reach new heights. He is eager to help me get there. I can trust in His goodness and faithfulness.

"We are the clay, You are the potter; we are all the work of Your hand." Isaiah 64:8

Mold me, Daddy. I yield to Your process and Your wisdom.


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